a fellow traveler

A Fellow Traveler

I have a customer that our family business has serviced for a long time, an elderly gentleman of about 80 years old. Through the course of time we have had many meaningful conversations (through which he has passed on much wisdom to me). He has been believer for over 60 years, Boy Scout Leader for 30, and a microbiologist for 25, and the stories of his experiences have always been inspiring.  Now retired, is health is declining, and I have watched as old age has caught up with him.

Recently, as my oldest son and I were busy taking care of his yard, he surprised us with an unexpected visit. I watched as he, with sunken eyes, cane in hand, and arms shaking made his way across the lawn toward me. “Brian I’m in chemo-therapy now, they’ve found cancer in my pancreas.”  He looked at me with a quiet resignation and a forced half smile as he continued, “There is still a chance, but it’s pretty slim.”

What do you say? I could have thrown out a canned theological quip and then moved on, but this was a special guy to me. So, what do you say? One minute you are happily whistling as you work, and then, out of the blue, you sense that an old friend needs your sincere fellowship. As I sat there looking at this old saint, the only thing that came to mind was the glorious resurrection that still awaits us. “We don’t sorrow as those that have no hope…” and yet it seemed to be an empty sentiment. Words failed me as my heart broke for him.

I glanced at my shaken 12-year-old son who was listening and wondered what was going through his mind. Turning my gaze back to my friend, he saw the struggle in my eyes and was quick to reassure me that it was okay. “God is still good. I just get to find out first hand sooner than you do.”

With that, he turned and went back into the house. I watched him go and then looked back at my son whose expression had now changed into a smile and I realized that there was really nothing else to say.

In retrospect, I realize the greatest lessons are not always learned while listening to a sermon on Sunday morning. They are often found in experiencing opportune moments that come upon us unprepared and unlooked for.

My friend has taught me many things over the years as a fellow traveler in the faith, but his example of facing death while holding fast to the Lord has left me with an imprint upon my soul that will encourage me for the rest of my life. A quiet and faithful man who will never be noticed as someone who has changed the world, and yet he has changed mine. To an old friend who has fought the good fight and is looking forward to a glorious home coming let me say, “Well done thou good and faithful servant…” and thank you for your love.

                Brian Dodson